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		<title>By: jerome</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 06:15:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tina,

Thanks a lot for sharing your valuable experience about this subject. 
I truly believe that parents will play the biggest part of disciplining our children to become the best person they will be. Let&#039;s continue to make a difference in our society.

all the best,
Jerome</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tina,</p>
<p>Thanks a lot for sharing your valuable experience about this subject.<br />
I truly believe that parents will play the biggest part of disciplining our children to become the best person they will be. Let&#8217;s continue to make a difference in our society.</p>
<p>all the best,<br />
Jerome</p>
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		<title>By: Tina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 21:52:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bully students will always be around...with my experience to my students from years 1-10, it has always helped that the one being bullied be with a circle of friends (doesn&#039;t matter if they&#039;re only 2 as long as he is not alone) especially at breaks or recess... so that there will always be someone to witness &quot;who did what to who&quot; - 

the school should not encourage this no matter what the reason is, be it an attitude problem, or etc. they should have a sanction to the bully student - normally starts with a MISDEMEANOR, then DETENTION - where the bully spends his break, recess with a certain teacher or administrator in charge, then if it is repeated, should be given an IMMEDIATE TIME OUT  or a SUSPENSION - one other sanction our school gives is taking away from the bully student his freedom to play for example &quot;soccer or his fav&#039;rite sport&quot; during recess.  - 

we had lots of really mean bullies in the school, but with the help of the CODE OF CONDUCT - the bullies mellowed down, and SOME have really changed - not because they wanted to, they were forced to otherwise theyll be kicked out of the school. Physical injury should immediately have a sanction to the bully student -

You might want to ask again for their copy of CODE of CONDUCT in the school - 
sometimes fighting back, is an advantage so the bully will think that he can&#039;t just beat anybody around, 
although (your son)  should keep your reminders with him at all times...

I had an experience where one student who was always being bullied, fought back and both the bully and the non-bully student ended up being suspended together for 2 days..

the school(including the teachers) should play the biggest part in here in terms of their policies plus the parents of the bully student -who  should support the schools&#039; policies by monitoring their child 

...hope this helps you a little</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bully students will always be around&#8230;with my experience to my students from years 1-10, it has always helped that the one being bullied be with a circle of friends (doesn&#8217;t matter if they&#8217;re only 2 as long as he is not alone) especially at breaks or recess&#8230; so that there will always be someone to witness &#8220;who did what to who&#8221; &#8211; </p>
<p>the school should not encourage this no matter what the reason is, be it an attitude problem, or etc. they should have a sanction to the bully student &#8211; normally starts with a MISDEMEANOR, then DETENTION &#8211; where the bully spends his break, recess with a certain teacher or administrator in charge, then if it is repeated, should be given an IMMEDIATE TIME OUT  or a SUSPENSION &#8211; one other sanction our school gives is taking away from the bully student his freedom to play for example &#8220;soccer or his fav&#8217;rite sport&#8221; during recess.  &#8211; </p>
<p>we had lots of really mean bullies in the school, but with the help of the CODE OF CONDUCT &#8211; the bullies mellowed down, and SOME have really changed &#8211; not because they wanted to, they were forced to otherwise theyll be kicked out of the school. Physical injury should immediately have a sanction to the bully student -</p>
<p>You might want to ask again for their copy of CODE of CONDUCT in the school &#8211;<br />
sometimes fighting back, is an advantage so the bully will think that he can&#8217;t just beat anybody around,<br />
although (your son)  should keep your reminders with him at all times&#8230;</p>
<p>I had an experience where one student who was always being bullied, fought back and both the bully and the non-bully student ended up being suspended together for 2 days..</p>
<p>the school(including the teachers) should play the biggest part in here in terms of their policies plus the parents of the bully student -who  should support the schools&#8217; policies by monitoring their child </p>
<p>&#8230;hope this helps you a little</p>
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		<title>By: jerome</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 17:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mel, looks like you&#039;re the bully...(just kidding)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mel, looks like you&#8217;re the bully&#8230;(just kidding)</p>
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		<title>By: mel</title>
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		<dc:creator>mel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 03:41:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Poke him in the eye! And kick him in the balls!  
That should test the bully a lesson! 
 
Then beat him up, until he cries! 
 
Always works with me, when I was still in elementary.... hahaaha! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Poke him in the eye! And kick him in the balls!<br />
That should test the bully a lesson! </p>
<p>Then beat him up, until he cries! </p>
<p>Always works with me, when I was still in elementary&#8230;. hahaaha!</p>
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